Women: still a responsibility or not?
Be it corporate, or politics or a protagonist in a movie, women are leaving behind men everywhere. Gone are the days when we live in male chauvinism society .Women have already set so many examples for the one who still like to stay in the cocoons and do not like to come out of home or even forced to stay at home.
Be it Mrs Indira Nooyi, Kiran Bedi or some actress, women are setting examples in the society. In the recent interview given by Mrs Indira Nooyi wherein she mentions that she never chooses professional over personal or personal over her professional life. She always tried to manage both. Also she talks about her mother wherein her mother tell when you are into home you are a mother of children and a daughter in law and also a wife.
It is never that hard to manage both of your life once you understand your responsibilities well and understands them and deal with them smartly.
Today also there are females who literally starve to step out of their homes and take breath. Why are we not letting them fly?
I myself some weeks ago heard somebody saying “ladki jyada padegi to shaadi kaun karega”. Is that really important? I agree it is the part of life, but just the part, not the whole life.
Why not to become responsible for that whole life rather than being responsible for just a part of it?
Being a part of democratic country every girl whether a small town or a big town, everybody has right to fly like a free bird, she has right to take her own decision and become responsible for it. Keeping girls in cocoons never served the purpose nor will ever do that. People in certain towns of India start collecting penny just to get them married.
No guys, Wake up! Smell the coffee!
If you really want to do something for your daughter, give them freedom, let them take their own decisions, do not count their age because they are getting older to get married. We need feminism. You never have to pay somebody to get married to your daughter. Let her make her own identity. Let her face the world and let her tell the world that she does not need anybody. No matter she is 18 or 30 or 40. She does not need boyfriend to take decisions at 18 nor her husband at 30 or 40. She is the owner of her own destiny and only she can rule it.
Why are we still making such situations for women wherein she is made uncomfortable?
Scenario has changed so should we. Let’s make things fair for females. Lets her just fly, let her just not judge on what she wear, or on whether she take licker or not, or she smokes. Let just judge her or in fact not judge her at all. Let her live her life, let her party hard, let her smoke, let her take licker.
Let us just see that she is a human being and she has the right to do everything of her will.
